Can we heal the world with friendship? And maybe with chocolate too? There are times when we form friendships that transcend language and culture. This is the story of two such friends who can barely communicate but who have found a richer life over laughter and chocolate.
Certain friendships have a language all of their own. Without words, secrets can be shared, jokes caught, our thoughts heard, and who we are, seen.
And with any good friendship, there’s ease. It’s a sort of, “I see you, you see me” arrangement that can cross boundless hurdles. And the friendship between Issam and Frank, that we’re lucky enough to get a glimpse of in this article, is one that defies many of our commonly-held beliefs about what makes a strong friendship.
It’s a pairing that makes us ask: Could friendship actually change the future?
Tucked away in Antigonish, Canada is a very small chocolate shop with a big story.
When Issam Hadhad came over to Canada with his family in 2016, they had an entire life to rebuild. For decades before, Issam owned and operated a successful chocolate factory in Damascus, Syria that sent sweet treats all throughout the Middle East. But in 2012, a bombing brought that part of his life to an abrupt end as his factory fell. In the years that followed, everything that made his home “home” was destroyed in the war.
So they came to Antigonish, Canada and found themselves in a community that wanted nothing more than to help them rebuild their lives. Their new neighbors banded together and built Issam a new chocolate shop. And that’s when he met his new friend, Frank Gallant.
Although they can’t speak the same language, it doesn’t stop them from understanding each other.
This video, directed by Jonathan Keijser gives us a glimpse into Issam and Frank’s friendship as Frank brings Issam on his very first camping trip! (Not going to lie to you, it’s the cutest thing I’ve seen recently.)
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“I do want to be positive about the world. There’s lots of injustices and some people will say that they’ll be here forever. But it’s through acceptance and connection that at least you can bridge a conversation.” — Frank Gallant
In a time when most media outlets share only the most shocking news, these stories most often go unheard. We get caught up and swept away in the divisiveness, and we miss these examples of connection. Yet, it’s exactly examples like this that will make the world better for us all.
Every one of us wants the same basic things for our lives. (See: Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs) And it’s when we come at our connections with people that way, regardless of the languages we speak, that we can find out just how similar we really are.
Hey, you may even find yourself making chocolates together and going for canoe trips before you know it.
Want some science behind how deeply similar we all are?
Take a look at how our facial expressions work!
Even with our differences, there are so many ways that we can connect with one another.
We don’t need to be from the same place, to speak the same language, to be the same age, sex, or gender to understand and connect with how someone else walks in the world. Who knows what would happen if more people came at interactions with one another this way?
“In my experience with others, I’ve encountered that most people are good. If all people walked together as if they were one heart, there’s hope for the future.” — Issam Hadhad
Stay open to new possibilities!
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it.” —Albert Einstein
Walk a little taller knowing about the great things happening in the world!
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- The Atlantic. “Peace By Chocolate.” YouTube, The Atlantic, 6 Mar. 2019, www.youtube.com/watch?v=8HHIf1ojdGE&feature=youtu.be. Accessed 29 Aug. 2019. ↩