When life brings us down an unexpected road, sometimes the best thing we can do is take what we love to do and adapt it to the new path we face. This is how Jay Dean went from car mechanic to fantastical lamp artist. After a life-changing injury, he sat down, assessed what he had, and discovered a new passion in life. It’s a simple, but powerful formula for transforming pain when life changes challenge you or someone you love!

It’s a situation that every single one of us is going to find ourselves in at some point. As much as we try to avoid experiencing terrible things, they’re still going to find us.  It will take a little creativity, some flexibility, and an innovative mind, but a resilient response might leave you in an even better place than where you started!

When you find yourself unsure of what to do next, reflecting on what you do have may lead to a moment of inspiration.

Image: dead lightbulbs surround a single illuminated bulb

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“If you can’t fly then run, if you can’t run then walk, if you can’t walk then crawl, but whatever you do you have to keep moving forward.” — Martin Luther King Jr.

If you’re reading this right now, congratulations, you’re living. You’ve survived everything that has come at you so far. You’ve adapted, changed, and grown. And yet, still, that worry probably remains sitting in your brain: What if a catastrophe happens? How will I ever get through it? Even though you’re living, breathing proof that you have it in you to make it through, sometimes it takes someone else’s story to really put things in perspective.

The mechanic turned ingenious lamp maker

The beautiful video we’re featuring below from Dark Rye holds a story that could happen to any one of us. And I couldn’t do a better job to introduce it than Dark Rye already has in their video description:

“Jay Dean was a mechanic and that was that. He’d certainly never considered becoming an artist. But a back injury in his early 30s led to multiple surgeries. Jay found himself unable to work on cars and unable to provide for himself and his wife. He forgot all his goals, took to bed depressed, and tried to figure out what he was going to do with the rest of his years. One day, as he was cleaning his tools, empty and lost in existential uncertainty, he suddenly began to see something in the junked car parts in his garage. They called to him. He had an artistic inspiration. Jay began to make lamps out of them. The lamps, in return, began to make him.” 1

Without further ado, here’s a glimpse of Jay Dean’s story in the short film, A Shot in the Dark.

Via: Dark Rye 2

Sit with this for a second: what exactly did he do? Cleaned his tools, looked around at what he had already, and constructed a new possibility for himself. Seems like a route any one of us can take, yeah?

You can see some of Jay’s lamps here! And keep up with his awesome creations by following him on Instagram and Facebook!

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The beauty of pain and struggle is that they’re capable of introducing us to new parts of ourselves.

If there were not these theoretical bumps in the road, we would all keep going on in the same way. No lane changes, no traffic, just smooth sailing.

But change is inevitable and often times unplanned. It comes completely out of nowhere. So much so that it can turn into the spark we need to build upon the life we have, getting stronger and stronger as we move over and past it. It’ll bring you somewhere you’ve never been and could have never gone, without it. And because we have no control over whatever hardships await us in the future, the best we can do is embrace the new chapter they open. To dive headfirst into the journey beyond it.

None of this is easy. But there’s an odd, almost comforting curiosity that comes along for the ride. I imagine, for a lot of us, embracing that is the only way forward.

(I had another quote lined up to be here at the end of this section but of course, things changed. After I wrote this, I looked through a few more and found this one that feels oddly specific.)

“You just have to keep driving down the road. It’s going to bend and curve and you’ll speed up and slow down, but the road keeps going. — Ellen DeGeneres

Explore more stories of people who have used their life changes to catalyze their next chapter:

Although this life isn’t easy on any of us, we do have the benefit of storytelling. Others have gone through the unimaginable, faced obstacles they never thought they could, and adapted their lives to their new reality before them. And when we learn about their stories, suddenly facing our own challenges becomes more manageable.

Here are a few from our library that have stuck with me:

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Pa Arding: Turning Accidents into Opportunity

How do any of us find a way to turn moments of tragedy into a catalyst for good? Pa Arding had her life inexorably changed, but that didn't stop her from finding ways to paddle her way to a cleaner planet. There are a few lessons we can all learn from her story.

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10 minutes

The Wild Potential of Embracing Our Limitations

What if embraced our limitations? What possibilities might we discover if we just owned them and let them force us to get creative. We might actually find possibilities we would never have discovered. Take a look at how remarkable this mindset can be!

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36 minutes

Rewriting Stories on Mountainsides

We typically don’t want to go back to a place we had a terrible experience. But what if we did? Here’s the story of three U.S. Army Captains returning to Iraq for the first time since combat to experience something completely different.

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18 minutes

Janine Shepherd: The Flight of an Unstoppable Spirit

A world of possibilities is waiting for us if we lighten our load! Here is an amazing person to be our guide.

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Stay open to new possibilities!

  • Sam

“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it.” —Albert Einstein

Have you had a similar experience to Jay?

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Notes:

  1. “A Shot in the Dark.” Vimeo, Dark Rye, 21 May 2014, vimeo.com/96019799. Accessed 15 May 2019.
  2. “A Shot in the Dark.” Vimeo, Dark Rye, 21 May 2014, vimeo.com/96019799. Accessed 15 May 2019.

Samantha Burns

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Samantha is a listener, creator, collector of knick knacks and lover of most, if not all, types of cheese.