How much potential progress is being lost because the right mind just isn’t being groomed to come up with the next big idea?
And how does fear of failure affect what we pursue?
For many of us, it’s a fear that’s stood right next to us, or maybe just behind whispering in our ear, our entire lives. There’s a multitude of reasons for its presence but more than likely, you can trace it directly back to the varying expectations around failure placed on us in our childhoods.
Reshma Saujani noticed this correlation, so in 2012 she began Girls Who Code to help change the pattern. This phenomenal organization is inspiring lives in every zip code, so let’s learn how.

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If you go to the about section on the Girls Who Code website, the first line you’ll read will be, “Girls Who Code was founded with a single mission: to close the gender gap in technology”. If you’ll scroll down the page a bit further, you’ll see why. They report that in 2017 only 24% of computer scientists are women, which, as I’m sure you’ve gathered, is quite the gap. 1 But why is that?
Let’s go back to the fear of failure I mentioned in the beginning. We all have it in various forms, but can we blame fear of failure for making computer science such a male-dominated field? Could fear really be a factor? And could the experiences of our childhood be behind all this?
Reshma discusses this quandary when she sits down for this amazing segment of NPR’s TED Radio Hour with Guy Raz.
Her entire TED Talk, Teach Girls Bravery, Not Perfection, can be found here.
You know, it’s an amazing world because we all share it. So what kind of progress would happen if we were all raised with the same expectations? Given the same opportunities? The same support?
So back to my opening question: How much of this potential progress is being delayed because the right mind just isn’t being groomed to come up with the next big idea? Or because maybe someone already has this great idea, but they’ve been unintentionally groomed to be nervous to share it with the world? Unfortunately, we all lose out either way.
What if we all approached risk-taking differently? What if Reshma Saujani is really onto something here?
Judging by the 90,000 women who have already gone through the Girls Who Code program, with a high number of alumni announcing majors in Computer Science as they enter college, it looks like she is. 3
It’s apparent that if young people are given the tools and the support to try and fail and to do it all over again, they’ll have a better understanding of what they’re capable of, what they enjoy, and the drive to make what they want a reality.
Share this article with someone who may need a little boost to try something new. Let them know that failure is an option (and bound to happen) but it’s not a defining moment or a prediction of what’s possible.
We found a fabulous article in Forbes magazine with 30 of the most amazing quotes from people with inspirational stories of facing their fears. Check out the whole list. Here are a few of our favorites that you might not have seen before:

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“Everything you want is on the other side of fear.” – Jack Canfield
“Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly.” – Robert F. Kennedy
“If you’re not prepared to be wrong, you’ll never come up with anything original.” – Ken Robinson
Remember, behind every Nobel Prize winner is a long series of failures that informed and refined the foundation of their genius! What if they never learned to bounce back from them?
Stay open to new possibilities.
- Sam
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it” – Albert Einstein
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Notes:
- “About Us – Girls Who Code.” Girlswhocode. N.p., n.d. Web. 19 Apr. 2018. <https://girlswhocode.com/about-us/>. ↩
- “Can Coding Help Girls Take Risks?” NPR. NPR, 24 June 2016. Web. 03 Apr. 2018. <https://www.npr.org/2016/06/24/483131204/can-coding-help-girls-take-risks>. ↩
- “About Us – Girls Who Code.” Girlswhocode. N.p., n.d. Web. 19 Apr. 2018. <https://girlswhocode.com/about-us/>. ↩